We all have those times in our lives when we put up with negative energy that is either coming at us or coming from us. If that is happening to you or someone you care about, rest assured that eventually, most people come to the reality that they are tolerating an unnecessary amount of negative treatment in their lives and will choose to change their situation.

Whether the problem is work, friends, or with family members, many people come to the point that they simply want more. You have to decide what will help you be the person that you want to be. It may be more peace or simply the opportunity to expand your options in an attempt to go after a dream that has been on hold for longer than you want to admit.

The people around you may not know that you are struggling with the need for more. You can have more. You have to believe that you are worth more and that you can achieve what you want to achieve. People around you may think that you have “lost your mind,” just because you want to try something new. My suggestion is that you share your feelings and goals with those who are important to you, if that is possible. Never hurt those that love you unnecessarily, trying to change your circumstances. Children deserve to be protected if they are involved.

You have to realize that your surroundings affect the choices that you make each and every day. You have the power to modify your surroundings and to work on your goals, whether it is to change your schedule or job or whatever it takes. If someone accuses you of “changing” they may have never known who you really are or what you want to accomplish. Communicate more effectively with those who care about you. We only have one life. It doesn’t make sense to ignore what your inner voice is telling you to do. “Now, let’s get going!”  xo Sally