There is not a person among us that can be funny and creative every minute of every waking day. Some people have the gift of humor and can turn many situations into funny moments, but not everyone has that capability.
We need to develop more patience when we are with loved ones, co-workers and friends. When people are comfortable with you and around you, people have less of a “guard” up, and can be more relaxed. That is when we can be more spontaneous, and when we feel that we can share our opinion or thoughts, without fear of an over-reaction or criticism, more information will be forthcoming.
What is the bonus of this? If you can be quiet and listen to others when they talk, they will be more willing to listen to you. If you are the quiet one and the atmosphere you are in is supportive and interested in what you have to say, confidence builds and teams are formed.
Every comment does not have to be interesting, but if your comments are kind, you will gain more followers than you had when you started your journey into greater self-awareness. "Now let's get going!" xo Sally
