I know that it can be frustrating if you think that certain friends only call you when they need something.
The most important thing you can do for someone who consistently contacts you for help, is to show them ways to manage their situation better.
You were not put on this planet to repeatedly rescue people from disasters of their own making. When people allow their lives to be filled with drama, and it feels like they thrive on craziness; that is your cue to back away.
We all make choices, and no matter how important someone is to you, your goal needs to be to guide them in the direction of positive change. Help them find opportunities to solve their own problems. People can get lost at any age and at any point in their life.
As a friend, stand behind them and point them in the right direction.
Do not allow your life to become so entangled in their drama that you lose yourself in the process.
“Now, let’s get going!” xo Sally
