We all need a break sometimes…and you should take some time for yourself, or spend some time with friends that allow you some “down time.”
But…running away from your problems is never a good idea. Those kinds of problems never really go away…they fester and need to be dealt with!
So here is something to think about; if you have some problems that you would like to run away from, consider what your options are to manage the issue(s).
Some problems are not so easy to “solve.” Sometimes you need to develop different strategies to manage a situation that will allow the problem to come to a point where you have a better chance to resolve it. It can take some time to work that out. Take the time. Look at your options. Develop a strategy. Running away only prolongs the inevitable.
You won’t get that time back…you have more positive goals to work on. Rid yourself of the negative weight. You deserve better. “Now, let’s get going!” xo Sally
Let’s make “not complaining” be today’s goal. Can you do it? Of course you can…if you choose to.
Changing our behavior is a challenge. It takes effort for sure, but it also is a choice. It is often convenient to hang on to the old behaviors we have. They are comfortable and we can relate to them.
When we choose to make changes, no matter how small, we open up a whole new world of possibilities. We can learn more about ourselves and teach our family members, our children, and their children (no matter what age they are), that they can also change their behavior, when we lead by example.
Be the example. Stop complaining…today…maybe you can last longer than 24 hours! Let me know how you do! “Now, let’s get going!” xo Sally