I am sure you know people who love talking about themselves. If they are not talking about what they are doing, have done or are going to do, it seems like every time you talk about an experience you have had, they come up with something that will seem to “top” your experience.
It is normal for people to share information about themselves with their friends and colleagues. What is interesting is why some people tend to focus a conversation on themselves and what they are doing, rather than ask others about what is happening with them.
One of the best communication skills you can develop is the art of listening. Challenge yourself when you are in a conversation with a friend or co-worker, and make a point of listening more. Ask more questions about them and their opinions, and watch how things evolve. See if you are able to modify any of your normal conversational habits and take note of what you may want to change related to developing better listening skills.
Confident people do not talk about themselves very often. They do not have to brag or boast about what they have done or will do. They stay focused and work towards their goals.
Make your goals your priority. Visualize yourself reaching those goals. Don’t talk about it. Do it. You can make it happen!
“Now, let’s get going!” xo Sally
