Insecurity. No one likes how it feels.
When we feel insecure, we are unsure of what to expect. We feel vulnerable and out of control. We rarely function at our best when we feel that way.
There is a lot to be said for getting out of your comfort zone, and allowing yourself to experience new things. That is how we all grow and learn to adapt. But when we think our abilities or skills do not match the people we are around, we may feel insecure, but should we?
How often do you allow yourself to feel “less than” someone else, because you are not where they are? Just because someone has more expensive clothes, a larger home, or a new car, does not mean that they are free of insecurities. We put ourselves there. You have no way of knowing how another person is feeling, even if you think their life is “better” than yours.
Live your best life. Work on improving yourself. Don’t worry about what those around you may think. As long as you are moving forward, you are going in the right direction. Stop the comparing and the feelings that freeze you in your tracks. That prevents you from growing! You can reach your goals. Believe that you have what it takes, because you do. “Now let’s get going!” xo Sally
