Dealing with life and death issues is something that enters all of our lives at different times. Sometimes it takes us by surprise, and the pain we feel can be overwhelming. At other times the process can be slow and painful.
I have learned some valuable lessons, having lived in Southwest Florida for the past 20 years. This is where many of you or your parents come to live out their “Golden Years.” Sometimes those years do not turn into the carefree years that people are dreaming of. Sometimes living becomes difficult as we age, because physical problems develop as well as changes in memory, and the ability to be independent has challenges.
When you or your loved ones recognize that they are aging, and you are realizing that we all have an eventual end, ask yourself what you can create that will last beyond your years.
I challenge you not to answer that with money, but to answer that with a gift that you can give of yourself. Something that you can participate in to make a difference in the world around us. Our world needs compassion and leadership. Each of us can contribute.
I have had many patients over the years leave large amounts of money to their children, and their children would say that they had no memories of their mother or father being caring or kind. They honestly were glad to see death come to the parent who was “absent” in their lives.
Don’t be that person. Create a living legacy, even if it is knowledge that you impart to others, that teaches the importance of gratitude and kindness. “Now, let’s get going” xo Sally
