Challenging situations and challenging people can create many things. Some good…some not so fabulous.
It is great to be in a challenging environment. It can help you develop your skills and grow as a person. But each challenge you confront does not mean that you have to sit back and “take it.” For a challenging environment to help a person grow, it needs to teach you something. Sometimes it teaches you that the type of person presenting the challenge is personally motivated and abusive…well that changes you too.
Recognize what type of challenges you are up against. Which ones are positive and which ones are negative. Challenges do change you; that is for sure. You need to pick out which ones are challenging you for the better. Those are good. The others…you need to move away from. This coming year, you want to “grow goodness” in you. There is no room for negative energy. Pass it by. Learn other ways. Focus on growing a good life. “Now let’s get going!” xo Sally