Each day we confront issues, attitudes and deal with the behavior of our family, friends and co-workers. One of the best things you can do to preserve your sanity is to opt out to deal with those things that really matter. They all may matter to you, but you need to give some thought to the actual importance of an issue, before you turn it into a big deal.
I define a “big deal” as something that is going to impact me or my family in a negative way. You can’t influence everything for the better, and sometimes you may want to react to something just because it bugs you. Don’t let that happen. Weigh the consequences of bringing up an issue that may not matter to anyone but you. You may be making a mountain out of a mole hill.
What we want to strive to do is live peacefully with those who do not share our opinion on a topic. We want to be able to share ideas and thoughts without creating an upheaval and potentially ruining a good relationship. So weigh your battles carefully. Don’t remain silent if there is a situation that requires you to fight the right battle to protect your rights or the rights of others.
The goal is to learn when to leave things alone. It is a daily challenge to make that decision, but if you take your time and listen to all sides of a situation you will make a more informed choice and get the best outcome! Try it and let me know how you do! “Now, let’s get going!” xo Sally
